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« on: March 26, 2008, 05:43:51 PM »

Has you know my dad is very ill, yesterday he was discharged from the hospital and fetched home



First a mattress was supposed to be delivered and inflated in the morning then my dad was supposed to arrive in the afternoon.

Well the mattress arrived and was being inflated when  the phone rang it was the sister my dad had been released in the morn ing and had just set out in the ambulance.  Has she spoke the ambulance pulled up in front of the house.  So the bed wasn't ready for him and once he was settled time to unpack his bags.  No medication or pads in the bag.  So a phonecall to the hospital and told we can pick up the meds at three it isn't even dinnertime.

by nine that night the district nurse still hadn't shown, and the meds we finally received from the hospital were paracetamol 500mg yeah the kind you buy over the counter.

This is the man in the final stages of cancer to weak to sit up most of the time and his throat that sore, his voice has gone, yet the gave him those to swallow.

He has worked damned hard all his life and paid his stamp, how can they treat him like this  gif
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« Reply #1 on: March 26, 2008, 05:53:03 PM »

So sorry to hear that Cas gif It must be so frustrating. Is he having MacMillan nurses or any home care?

 The MacMillan nurses looked after my dad at home and were excellent. Sorted his pain relief, kept him comfortable and helped my mum cope a lot xxx
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« Reply #2 on: March 26, 2008, 05:57:08 PM »

they were supposed to get in touch yesterday and didn't fingers crossed they will do today
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« Reply #3 on: March 26, 2008, 05:58:51 PM »

Sure they will now he's actually home gif gif
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« Reply #4 on: March 26, 2008, 06:22:59 PM »

Oh cas i feel for you.....he and you should not have to cope with this level of care gif

My nan had a Macmillan nurse and they were great gif so I hope they get themselves sorted gif
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« Reply #5 on: March 26, 2008, 09:21:39 PM »

Cas, what an awful situation. I can only imagine how upset you must be. I am so sorry and I hope things will improve,
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« Reply #6 on: March 26, 2008, 10:14:34 PM »

I hope things get better with your Dad's care. I sometimes think there are a few hiccups when someone first comes home but it really doesn't help that person or his relatives.

I hope it settles soon and he gets all the right care that he needs.

Thinking of you all. xx
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« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2008, 10:40:15 PM »

Thinking of you all hun  gif
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« Reply #8 on: March 26, 2008, 10:45:16 PM »

as  thats terrible....when Mags came home in a similar situation, everything was in place  the McMillan Nurse couldnt do enough for us
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« Reply #9 on: March 28, 2008, 01:54:21 AM »

That's awful cas.

Hope things get sorted out VERY quickly.............

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« Reply #10 on: March 28, 2008, 10:02:35 AM »

thats bad cas, i really do hope something gets sorted out quick  gif
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« Reply #11 on: March 28, 2008, 02:23:50 PM »

Thinking of you all  gif

Hope the care gets better
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« Reply #12 on: March 28, 2008, 08:09:45 PM »

well they finally sorted my dad out with his morphine today

so hopefuly he will be in less pain Smiley
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« Reply #13 on: March 28, 2008, 08:19:28 PM »

That's good news gif Marvelous stuff that morphine gif
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« Reply #14 on: March 28, 2008, 09:10:48 PM »

Glad to hear things are improving  gif

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